The downsides: The user interface is not the most attractive we've ever seen, but considering POF has such a large number of users, I guess we can ignore the subpar aesthetics. Since the profile building takes some time, we'd suggest answering all of the questions on a desktop, but doing the actual swiping and matching on the app. In terms of the actual app use, the unlimited messaging can be nice, but people can send you messages without matching, so if that's not your vibe, this probably isn't the app for you. This can also contribute to a more hookup-dominant culture of the app, so prepare for that as well. The downsides: You have to be fast and active if you use Bumble since matches disappear after 24 hours if you don't interact with them. This is especially rough for men seeking flirt chat website women because they can't even start the convo if the match cuts it close to time. At least you know who's really, really interested.